Shelter
Posted by clarencepace1967 on March 14, 2010
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IMDB rating: 8.10 Plot: Forced to give up his dreams of art school, Zach spends his days working a dead-end job and helping his needy sister care for her son. In his free time he surfs, draws and hangs out with his best friend, Gabe, who lives on the wealthy side of town. When Gabe’s older brother, Shaun, returns home, he is drawn to Zach’s selflessness and talent. Zach falls in love with Shaun while struggling to reconcile his own desires with the needs of his family. |
Actors: Wright Trevor,Bushell Matt,Leigh Devin,Margolin Don,Reed Albert,Rowe Brad,Thomas Ross,Zohdy Tarek,Drama,Romance,Sport,
What would you do in a situation like this ?=(?
I have posted before regarding this question. It’s not that I’m not interpreting advice. I really like to expand my mind to opinions. I really appreciate your answers/opinions. Thank you.
It’s been since January 11th since my boyfriend got out of jail AFTER serving 2 weeks. It was his first time ever locked up, and it was for a petty crime. So it’s been since December 22nd since I last spoke to him. He called me two times before going in (to jail) in late December. Which I didn’t pick up because my phone was on silent while I was at an orientation.
I don’t believe in cheating. However I’m the girl that would be ready to move on because I do believe I am a strong person that can live and learn. Although I admit. Almost all nights, I almost always think of him and pray he’s well and happy, before I go to sleep.That’s all that matters to me now. Whether he’s with me or not.
I just don’t want to go against my principles. Which are ‘cheating’. Our relationship stood strong because we strongly opposed infidelity and encouraged ourselves to be better people in life. I know, "but he went to jail." His phone has been disconnected and still is as of January 1st. He’s been living in a homeless shelter since December 5th. He does have a job, but not sure if he was fired (more than likely) due to him being in jail for 2 weeks. We’ve been together since February of last year. We were always planning & looking forward on seeing each other very soon (which was going to be December). He’s respectful and caring to me. Very considerate. Never laid a hand on me, called me names. Honestly I can tell him everything and anything the most. Yet him not calling me is however considered inconsiderate.
I know he was discharged from county because it’s in the public roster. This was his first time in jail.
What wuld u do?? I’m thinking he possibly could have sent himself to rehab. I can’t seem to be able to exclude that possibility, or conclude that without proof. Or maybe he could have checked himself into another homeless shelter that is restrictive. Or he could have said, "She deserves better." And not call me with his ‘new’ number. If he does have a phone. What do you think.
Hmmm. Well, there are a million "what ifs" . It could be anything, like what you listed above. He could be homeless, he could be in rehab, and I know you don’t want to hear this, but something bad might have happened and maybe he is no longer with us. Especially if he was living on the streets. Or he may be so caught up into drugs that he doesn’t even realize what he’s doing. I’m sorry to say this but I think that it is time that you moved on. If he really cared about you, he would have contacted you by now. Stay strong, keep praying and I wish you the best of luck.
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